Wednesday, 5 August 200911:46:00 pm
What are the changes you experienced in the past 13 or 14 weeks? Do you like/ dislike the changes? Why?
The changes I experienced in the past 13 or 14 weeks, is myself and the friends around me. At first when we came together as a class, we don’t know each other well; we would tend to do many things together. But as time pass, we knew more about each other; individually we found our own clique and forget the bond share we used to share. Indirectly when cliques are form, gossips will be heard and dislikes will definitely occurred. Once thought certain classmate was like that but after some time, “real self” was revealed. This had caused changes in the perception which will leads to drifting away and finding of a more suitable clique.
I do like and dislike this changes. Contradicting, isn’t it? I like it because we found friends and clique that were more suitable for us and have a stronger and closer bond between one another. Definitely, the individual clique and friends we have now will be the friends we will turn to in the future and sharing the greatest joy together. I dislike this change because it distances the class bond, creating class politics and gossips about one another. It would be good if everyone in class forgets each other flaws and not pin-pointing about each other flaws, it will bond the class closer.
But isn’t how this nature works? We, humans love to find the flaws of one another instead of praising one another. A good learning in life is to be adaptable in changes and live on with it.
this was what I wrote about RJ today. I found it meaningful so I thought it would be good to share! :D
& where's the blogger toolbar again!? I manages to caught hold of it just now but NOW...
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